STYLED by Confidence

Find your Style, Increase your Confidence and regain Control over your life

Woman often find themselves living each day by default after a major life transition like changing careers, ending a relationship, becoming a mother, facing an empty nest, losing a loved one, etc. wondering who they have become.

Many caregivers, achievers or survivors lose confidence in the process and opening up the wardrobe doors reveal the evidence!

Refining who you are and how you want the world to see you, reminds of the Aladdin story – when you rub and polish the lamp, your inner genie (read genius) is revealed! Confident women makes wishes come true...it's called the ripple effect!

Does this sound like you?

• Do not believe in the look better, feel better mantra, because nothing in your closet excites you;

• Experience that looking good takes extra time which you do not have;

• Get overwhelmed when you start sorting that overflowing wardrobe, you stop and just close the doors;

• You feel emotionally attached to the items in your wardrobe and can’t let go;

• Feel frustrated changing outfits multiple times when getting dressed in the morning; show up uncomfortable and self-conscious;

• Dislike shopping and hate spending huge amounts of money on clothes;

• Dread meeting up with girlfriends because you feel awkward and not so well put together as they do;

• Lost a spark in your relationship because the lounge wear trend took over and you seriously need to get your sexy back;

• Successful in your career but your image needs to level up, you notice people responding differently to female peers looking the part;

• Been stuck in a style rut so long you don’t know what to buy for your shape, age or lifestyle;

• Want your children to proudly say “Mommy looks pretty” but you feel too overwhelmed or depleted to even make the effort;

• You crave support, kindness and a reminder that you are important;

• You are curious and committed to being the best version of YOURSELF and prepared to put in the work.

What if things could be different?

YOU are the mom arriving at school on time, admired by all others thinking "How does she manage it all?"

The point of difference being YOUR casual outfit flatters your shape, the clothing colours suit your skin tone and the accessories bring the outfit together perfectly. You are greeted with smiles and friends compliment your appearance. Your day is off to a fabulous start and you excitedly look forward to meeting your partner for an evening of dining and connecting, dressed in a sizzling ensemble.

YOU step into the meeting room and people look up and pause for a second, sensing your dynamic presence.

Your outfit conveys your personality perfectly. You are seen and when you voice your opinion, you are heard. The straight leg pants makes your short frame look taller and jacket ends just below the widest part of your hip, hiding a rounded tummy. The soft blouse underneath has a lovely draping effect disguising this figure concern. Your style allows you to focus on being brilliant and productive, because you own your look.

I can sense you nodding along.

Lovely to meet you, I am Willene Sieberhagen, caregiver and confidence catalyst and this is my style story...

On my last birthday I declared myself an author and the titles of two future bestsellers:

Motherhood is not a one-size-fits-all reflect on the ups and downs of our years of extensive fertility treatments. The book however has a very happy ending!

At the age of 41, my gorgeous 3-year old boy became a big brother to the most adorable boy and girl twin. Being the center of our universe and ever demanding needs to be met, I found myself giving in and putting who I was, my goals, aspirations, business, friendships, cooking, dressing up and blow dried hair, on hold… just feeling grateful for making it through each day. Yes, I officially swopped a designer bag for a diaper bag and lost myself and most significantly, my CONFIDENCE in the process.

My story continues....I truly felt I had no presence, no voice and suddenly no style inspiration. My go-to uniform became comfy jeans, nursing wrap tops, ballerina pumps and a mom bun. How exciting.

Time went by where I tried to wear “’what was”’ only to discover it did not suit my lifestyle or shape anymore and the remainder of my wardrobe held no excitement. I started spending on things I thought I should like, trying hard to make a comeback to society but also career wise as makeover specialist, workshop presenter and stylist. I felt pressurized to compete with gorgeous influencers and young moms at school who flaunted the latest trends with ease.

Ironically I was never a firm fashion follower, I always had a classic style, so the more fashion items I bought and tried, the less I recognized myself in the mirror.

I felt scattered, ungrounded, invisible and superfluous but holding on to outfits that I spent a ton of money on. Removing it from my wardrobe would be embarrassing, meaning I was wrong – not as in oopsie, but career wrong! My confidence level plunged as I struggled to relaunch my identity and my business, and at home I would become easily overwhelmed and feel out of control. This lead to the title of the second book:

Life is not a McDonalds drive-through - you can’t just order what you want and get it exactly as expected!

It hit me. I AM EVOLVING. I AM BECOMING. I am not in the McDonalds drive-through queue. This was my journey and I had to do the inner work to reveal who I had become and then define a style that was the true me. I cleared my head of all the sneaky gremlins, shouting that I am not deserving of having a purposeful career AND raise beautiful, confident children, AND have an amazing, supportive husband AND have spare capacity to embrace life as it happens, and, and, and…

The gremlins were also in my wardrobe - I had beautiful outfits, textures and prints but often reached for jeans and tees, wanting to keep myself small to make others feel bigger. But not anymore. I gave myself to permission to have it all, eliminating all blocks that’s been there for ages. I completely stepped into my feminine power and my elevated effortless elegant style - and have never felt so in control before. Never felt so deserving to receive before - in the past it was all about me giving. YOU CAN HAVE THIS TOO!

Which is why I’m soooo excited to serve you with a one-on-one coaching program called:

STYLED by Confidence!

The transformation from the OUTSIDE will include:

• The objective eyes of a Chata Romano certified Image Coach, that expertly guide and advise on what works, what doesn’t and why.

• Saving you time knowing what to wear or buy; no more getting sidetracked by the pretty things you see online or store window;

• Saving money with a smart shopping plan and permission to invest wisely in your self-esteem and therefor your future;

• A perfectly merchandised functional wardrobe, each item complementing your lifestyle and body shape in a colour that exudes confidence and personality.

• Creating MORE with LESS by learning how to mix and match clothing items to create multiple Pinterest worthy outfits using only a few items,

• Knowing how to and why accessories are so important in building an outfit;

• Experiencing a complete image solution incorporating effortless style, elegant make-up and hairstyle recommendations = packaging your brand!

• You start attracting more positive attention, which could lead to love interests, respect at work, a positive parenting connection, etc!!!

The transformation from the INSIDE will include:

• Setting yourself free from fashion fads or undesired social influence because you only do YOU – eliminating the comparison trap becomes a way of life;

• Clearing your confidence blocks that has always held you back – no more hearing your mom say that your legs aren’t made for skirts…

• Silencing that inner critic enabling you to focus on reaching your career and personal goals, even when building your new stylish wardrobe!

• Understanding the power of perception and how you can influence by appearance and body language;

• Feeling happy, authentic and grounded, not only in style but in life as the woman you are meant to be…

The HOW to and WHAT includes:

 A 60-90 Minute Zoom Consultation call with me, at a time convenient to you, once a week for 6 weeks;

 Practical exercises to help embed your newfound knowledge in between the consultation calls;

 Joining a Facebook community that provides more tips and articles regarding the specific Style & Confidence challenges;

 A personalised workbook to update, keep and refer back to covering all modules;

 No apps or complicated tech involved, all you need is a smart phone, uninterrupted internet access, a full length mirror and great lighting.

 Daily WhatsApp and Email support in need.

01 Confidence Coaching

Affirm your values;
Set your goals;
Discover your Strengths;
Uncover confidence blocks;
Establish a self-care routine;

Value: $400

Colour analysis to establish your best hair, makeup and clothing colours

Includes your personal colour chart;
Colour tips pertaining to hair, makeup and clothing;
How to mix and match colours to best suit your personality and lifestyle;

Value $150

03 Style Consultation

Analysing your entire body from the shape of your face to your ankle proportion to determine:

Your best type of hats, eyewear, hairstyles earrings and necklaces;
Which types of Collars or Necklines suit you best;
What length of jackets, tops, knits, pants, shorts, skirts & dresses to wear;
Shoes that will compliment your lower body shape;
Identifying your dominant and secondary style personality;
Creating a look-book for style inspiration.

Value: $350

04 Wardrobe Planning Consultation

A wardrobe planned, is a wardrobe worn!

Basics for creating a capsule wardrobe;
What doesn't work and why;
Accessoring the same outfit from casual to smart;
Addressing wardrobe sentiment;
Deciding when to throw-out, donate or whether it's worth to tailor;
The art of merchandising and organising your wardrobe to be functional and beautiful;
Mix and match template to create 45 different outfits using only 15 items;
How to care for your garments;
Compiling a shopping list of much needed wardrobe items.

Value: $450

05 Hair and Make-up Consultation

Your best hair colours for your skin tone;
Your best hair style options based on the shape of your face, your side profile, your forehead and your eye shape;
Hair styling and hair care tips;
Makeup tutorials and product (not brand) recommendations.

Value: $150

06 Personal Branding Basics

What is a personal brand?
Why is personal branding important for everyone?
What makes you unique?
Create your own personal branding strategy aligned with your goals and values.

Value: $250

A total value of: $1 750

Hit the ELEVATE MY STYLE button now for only $690

“I feel so special, got my oomph back , because someone took care of ME for a change. Willene showed me that I have a shape with many assets, not just problem areas. She made a daunting task of clearing my old clothes so much easier. She made me feel very comfortable and gave excellent advice. Some of my old clothes feel like new items now that I have different items to where them with. Her program is for anyone who needs to up level. I immediately implemented her advice regarding my make-up and it made a huge difference. "

— Julyanne 38, Mom &

Migration Consultant

“Willene assisted me with a new wardrobe with clothes that actually fit, colours accentuating my strengths and styles hiding my body’s weak points. She knew how to match the articles to get multiple outfits. Her talent transformed my life. I was still fat but when I looked in the mirror, I felt more accepting of myself.

Since, I have been on a journey of self-discovery, healing, weight loss and learning how to love myself. My mind shifted to bettering myself for me. I realised I didn’t have to hide until I reached my goal weight. She showed me that as a plus size, I could still make heads turn."

— Milyn 42, Divorcee, 45kg weight loss

"She is an outstanding facilitator and trainer. Her sessions are engaging, thought provoking and extremely motivational and with her unique and humble personality, she manages to unlock the hidden potential in our participants. As a matter of fact most of our participants come out of her program asking for more sessions with her. Willene advocates the importance of a professional image and how small changes can unlock many opportunities in the business world.”

— Suezette 50 Director,

Performance Development Co

Once you move away from this screen, so does this opportunity. You know you will not return "to do it later..."'

You owe it to yourself to honestly answer these 3 questions and then click BUY!!!

Why do YOU want to elevate your style?

What would happen if you DON’T?

What can 100% happen if you DO?

I invite you to become part of a community that values positive self-talk, confidence, self-appreciation, healthy boundaries, gratitude and paying it forward so that we as women, in the end can change the world, one wardrobe at a time.

100% Satisfaction Guarantee

If you enroll and work with me for 6 weeks and you’re not satisfied with the outcome, I will give you a full refund...

The ripple effect of what the right clothing choices can do for a woman’s confidence is amazing – it would be an honour to mentor you through the process of elevating your inner and outer self – not like the expert but like two girlfriends who are rooting for one another – unconditionally.